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All families have conflict. It's the nature of people living in
close proximity. But when normal conflicts turn into daily shouting matches, family members begin hurting each other emotionally
(and sometimes physically) and a feeling of anger permeates the household, it's time to do something about it. Blended families
in which one or both parents bring to the marriage children from previous relationships present their own unique dynamics.
Let's face it. It isn't always the Brady Bunch. But there is help.
Sometimes the conflict is caused by the inappropriate
or unacceptable behavior of one or more members of the family. But it affects everyone. While we work with those individuals
to try to help them with the cause of their actions, we also work with the entire family so they can provide support for that
person and for each other, and to learn how to reduce the conflict.
Families can be thought of as a system of interacting
parts. We learn how to think, feel and behave from the families in which we grew up. When these beliefs are not challenged
and/or changed, we pass on that legacy to our children and their families
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Somali Community Development of Utah reaches
out to assist traditional counseling, or referrals for professional help to individuals, couples and families who are going
through personal, social or emotional problems included are parenting classes for the Somali refugees, support groups, and individual, marital, and family counseling.
Relationship or family counseling
may be particularly useful for:
- Problems developing in one or more family members, which affect all (i.e.:
children's problems, anger, depression in one partner etc.)
- Family or relationship change such as divorce, or children leaving home
- Cultural and ethnic conflict within relationships
- Sexual or cultural differences between the family and the larger community
- Finding the satisfaction you seek in relationships
Individual Counseling
Everyone experiences problems in
the course of growth and development. Some problems pass with time; some can be resolved with personal creative problem solving;
some can be resolved by consulting with family, friends, or other resources. Sometimes problems persist in spite of all attempts
to resolve them; sometimes they are just too numerous, too acute, and too big to manage without additional support. At these
times counseling services can provide assistance in rebuilding problem solving resources and options.
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